In Defense of
John La Tour
The View from the Middle
Abraham Lincoln, one of my favorite Presidents,
once said, “If you look for the bad in people expecting to find it, you surely
will.” Tucked inside this witticism are
two fundamental truths. First, we have
all done things that we regret, things that are wrong. Second, we can all distort the reality of a
person’s character if we focus only on the bad, and even exaggerate it, while
ignoring the positive. And that’s what’s
happening in Fayetteville with John La Tour.
I think it is important for the people of
Fayetteville to hear about John Latour from someone who has known John for more
than the 15 minutes he recently spent in Arsaga’s. Some people, like Garvin Smith, have written
lengthy, bordering on libelous, pieces about John without really knowing him. Mr. Smith, I have talked to the barista in
question and I have concluded that if you had any decency you will write a
retraction immediately.
I have known John for 25 years, and one of the
first things you’ll notice about John is that he is different. You would think, however, that this is
something that the LGBT community would not only accept, but embrace. It’s actually one of the first things that
attracted me to John.
John is a conservative. I hope that’s OK in Fayetteville these
days. Actually, in his conservatism he
is a liberal’s dream come true. If the
world, or at least Fayetteville, were full of John La Tours, there would be no
need for the Uniform Civil Rights Protection Ordinance. John doesn’t and wouldn’t discriminate
against anyone for any reason. He wants
civil rights for everyone and special rights for no one. You can disagree with that, but don’t
misrepresent it.
John is a self made man and an extremely
intelligent businessperson. He owes his
success to no man and to nothing but his own hard work and his willingness to
take risks (and he would add – to the grace of God). The City Council could actually learn
something from John if they weren’t so busy trying to assassinate his character
at every turn simply because he has a different point of view.
I’ve heard the council complain that he is
always the “no” vote, but let me ask them a question. Has John ever voted against his already
stated principles? One man’s obstruction
is another man’s consistency, you know.
To the rest of the City Council members I would ask, “Have you always
voted consistently with your values?” I
hope the answer to that question is “yes”, and I’m sure you’re proud to say
that you did. Shouldn’t you be just as
proud of John?
I have considered John La Tour to be a friend
for 25 years and I’m glad for it. As a
friend, I have found John to be kind, staunchly supportive and uncommonly
generous. He’s not just a friend but a
model of friendship, just as he is a model citizen.
John is not just a population statistic for
Fayetteville; he is an active citizen who is a leader in his church and
community. On the morning in question he
wasn’t just “meeting with acquaintances”, he was leading an accountability
group. He’s not just a member of his
church, he is a servant leader, and he is the same for the city of
Fayetteville.
John didn’t need to run for City Council. In fact, he feared that he would be
persecuted for his beliefs, and sadly those fears have been recognized. John just wants Fayetteville to be the best
city it can be. But unless Fayetteville
wants to become the ideologically unbalanced and extreme government that our
founders suggested leads to despotism (think Hunger Games), they need more John
La Tours on their council, not less.
Finally, the hypocrisy in this situation is
palpable. People have accused John of
being a bully, yet what they have done to him in the paper and on social media
is the very definition of bullying. The
truth has been twisted and even disregarded, and if you’ve ever heard the term
“piling on”, this will be the new case study.
Those 15 minutes at Arsaga’s were probably not
John’s finest quarter hour. He could
have been more insistent that they turn the music down. He could have expressed himself better. He could have just left and gone to a
different restaurant (although that suggests that the gay couple in Oregon
should have found another bakery). Whatever
the case, I think it’s time that we all put this situation into
perspective. If you are a friend of John
Latour, give him a call. He could use a
verbal hug today.